Arodomoners
so today is kind of a weird day. im starting to kind of like bob again. when i first told you guys that i didnt like him anymore it was because i was pissed at him for flaking out on me so much. now idk what it is about him, maybe its his funny sense of humor, his intelligence (he has never had anything lower then a 4.0 GPA, or maybe its the fact that he is athlete and has a pretty nice body (except for the fact that his nipples are the size of a freckle).
We picked out our classes today and the counselors gave us UC books and i was thinking of going to UC Santa Barbara because its less competitive. Bob now says he is thinking about applying there. Its so cool that a friend wants to go with me to college especially a hot baseball/ basketball player, but this ruins my plans.
What happens if he wants to room with me? i cant just come out when he will be my roommate he will tell everyone back at home. i will eventually tell ppl back at home but only after i have make friends with ppl who dont care.he will ask me y im not having sex (cause im gay!)
Arodomon, I would say that this might actually be a blessing, but that is only if he accepts homosexuality because you could actually come out to him, for if he is one of your better friends than I think he would be more accepting. Also, either way, it would give you a friend at the school, and if you have come out already to him, than coming out to UCSB would be easier and you would also, if he accepts you, have his support in coming out.
ReplyDeleteThat's a big jump to thinking that you will both want to go to UCSB over all other schools and room together. But you can decide about rooming together later. DOn't worry about potential problems now when it's a long way away.
ReplyDeleteGoing to the same college, could be fun! Rooming together, could be a disaster! My advice to you is to seriously think about him as a friend, does he keep secrets well, how do you think he feels about gays, if you came out to him, could he keep it to himself? If you don't know the answer to any of the questions for certain, then you are going to come up with a really good reason why you don't want to room with him.
ReplyDeleteOr you could just not put his name down as to wanting to room with him, which should mean that you wont be put in with him. That is kinda sneaky and i dont know how well you could live with that...
You have some time yet to get this all figured out, but at least you are not leaving it to the last minute, score!
If he's the friend you say he is, then it wont matter to him when you tell him you're gay. I haven't told many people that I'm gay, but the people I have told, I knew it wouldn't make any difference.
ReplyDeleteBut I will say be careful who you tell, especially if you don't want a bunch of people to find out.